Get Motivated To
Get Your Black Belt!
by Richard Hackworth, Ph.D., Lac.
A bad mood can steal your enthusiasm for training. So how do you motivate
yourself to train when your mood is getting in the way? Here are ten
techniques to help you get motivated to get your black belt:
1 Overcome Your Distracting Thoughts. Are your thoughts jumping
ahead to future demands or lingering over past experiences? Remind yourself
of how precious training time is-there will be plenty of time to return to
distractions when your class is over. Tell yourself, "Okay, I only have an
hour to train, but I'm going to completely concentrate on it."
2 Examine How Your Body Feels. Are you feeling fatigued, stiff,
tense, lethargic or restless? Perhaps you are training too hard and need to
cut back a little. Or perhaps you need to increase your stretching and
decrease your "TV" time. Your body also may be sending signals about other
lifestyle concerns that need attention-overwork, emotional strain, poor
nutrition or not enough sleep. Listen carefully and adjust accordingly, but
don't give up on your commitment to stay active.
3 Visualize Your Achievement. Imagine how you will feel after
fulfilling your exercise commitment for the day. Envision yourself
stretching and reaching with full extension and perfect body alignment.
Picture stress running off your body along with sweat. Or dream that you're
in top condition, playing in the Super Bowl or at Wimbledon, running the
last mile of the Boston Marathon or cycling in the Ironman competition.
Maybe even envision yourself winning the UFC!
4 Talk Back to Your Demons of Laziness. Do you often tell
yourself, "I'm too out of shape," "I'm so slow," "I've tried this before, it
never worked," or "I'm too old"? Talk back to those "gremlin" voices. Say to
yourself, "I can do this one step at a time. I am stronger. I will stick
with this program." Every time you hear the negative self-talk, challenge
it. You can become a black belt!
5 Listen to Your Joy. Are you choosing activities you like or
those you wish you would like? It's true that sometimes you need to train
when you simply do not feel like it-but if you are not getting any enjoyment
from your activities, you may need to look for workouts that better match
your personality and interests. If you enjoy forms training and self
defense, but your instructor only teaches sparring and drags you to
tournaments, speak up. Let them know that you want more forms training to
make your workouts more enjoyable. Instructors are happy to get your
requests and feedback. It helps them to help you to stay motivated!
6 Examine Your Plateau. Ask yourself, "What needs to change for me
to feel good about my progress?" Clarify the gap between what you are
experiencing and what you want to experience, then make the changes.
Sometimes getting a new uniform boosts your enthusiasm. Or buy a book or
piece of training equipment that you have been interested in. It can help
motivate you and your instructor can normally order items and have them for
you in less than a week.
7 Wake Up Your Routine. Try a new kind of workout or change the
sequence or frequency of your training. You do not have to add a lot of time
to your class to see change; instead try a harder level or increase the
number of classes you attend each week. Push yourself a little. You can do
more than you think!
8 Compromise Your Approach. If you decide to skip your class, plan
on taking a 10-minute training break at lunch and another quick training
break during your afternoon break to practice a few stretches and
techniques. Plan ways to make up for lost class time, like taking a seminar
on the weekend or scheduling an extra training session. A private lesson is
often more affordable than you think and can be just the boost that you were
9 Recommit to Your Goals. Activity levels greatly impact your
physical ability, risk of disease, stress response, energy level, appearance
and attitude. Remind yourself that positive habits are created one choice,
one moment at a time. Even if you choose not to train today, make a
commitment to get back on track tomorrow, no matter what. Call a friend from
class and see if you can practice with them one-on-one to help motivate each
10 Reinforce Your Training Values. Spend 20 minutes writing down
the reasons why staying on track for testing and learning is important to
you and why you cannot quit now. The secret to success is not willpower,
it's "want-power." Choose to stay committed, to stay dedicated, not because
you have to-but because you want to. If your goal is to become a black belt
commit to it. Let your instructor know. Sometimes making that commitment to
someone else is a strong motivator because you don't want them to think you
are a quitter. Remember to make it to black belt you have to make a
decision. A wish changes nothing. But a decision changes everything!
About the author: Richard Hackworth is the owner of
the American Dragon Martial Arts Academies in Ocoee, Florida USA who has
been teaching JungDoKwan Taekwondo, HaeMuKwan Hapkido and Shimkido there for
nearly ten years. He is the co-author of the "Martial Arts Profits & Success
Manual" and a co-author of the "Authentic Korean Hapkido Manual". He is the
International Chapter President of the Korean Martial Arts Instructors
Association and a certified Korean linguist and oriental medicine research
specialist. He can be reached at
[email protected] .